*About being pregnant…*

By Freek at 11:30 pm on Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Shocked you, didn’t I? Hehe.

Nolah. I ain’t pregnant. Just wanted to touch the topic on pregnancy and stuff.

I’ve been surfing around, blog-hopping here and there and it’s so nice to see so many people I know getting pregnant and having babies and all. Congrats to the soon-tob-be mums and repeated-mums. Heh. Truly, I do miss being pregnant. Yes, even the times of severe dehydration and non-stop vomitting I had to endure during the first 3-5 months of pregnancy. However, I’m not saying that I wanna quickly get back into the band-wagon and all what with my little miracle still a tad too small to be an older sis. But you know, despite the labour woes and all the post-natal caesarean pain and burst stitch, being pregnant is one of the nicest feelings in the whole world next to falling in love and having wonderful friends.

At home, my little angel is getting her first cousin soon. Will pop out in prolly less than a month’s time or anytime now. One of Dy’s good friend is getting his first anytime now, too.

In school, between last year and this year, it has been a funny thing. Of the 4-5 ladies who recently gave birth, Aaliya was the only girl. Hehe. The other colleagues of mine gave birth to sons. Although it is still TOO early for me to do it, I think I shall just bask in the baby boy blessings. Sprinkle some to me, can? Who knows, whenever my next one is gonna be, it’ll be a boy? Not that getting another girl would not be a blessing. But if it’s a boy, then, factory can close down liao. Haha.

But of course, when it comes to being pregnant, we can’t really force people to be and keep asking them when they want to be. I mean, it’s a matter of personal choice. Take it from me, having been through a miscarriage and then trying to conceive again, I’ve been faced with lots of inconsiderate questions of when I’m going to get one and all that. I mean, hello! We’re trying to create a human being here. Things take time and it’s all with HIS will. Some words hurt like hell but you know, one’s gotta stay strong and block out negative auras such as those. I do believe a married woman has it in her the desire to be a mum but, I mean, hey, having a baby is not a matter of having sex and then?out comes?children. It’s a matter of financial planning, stabilising your marriage, managing emotions, juggling a career and also the taking care of the baby itself when he/she finally pops. There’s a lot to consider in bringing up a person in this world. Especially here in Singapore. Yeah?

Having said that, I’m thrilled that in just 3-4 days time, my little darling will be 9 months old! This Saturday, she’ll be having her 9-month assessment. I’m kinda stressed up on what the doc expects but, I’ll let her develop at her own speed. Praises be to God that she’s healthy. Could never ask for more.

And having said that, when the hoot is my menses gonna come, ni?

Oh well, it was late last month too. So, let’s stay positive.


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Comment by Tween-O

February 25, 2009 @ 1:45 am

yah…menses aku pun lambat sebulan…jan nye, nearing end of feb baru sampai…takkan stress kot?

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Comment by Suhaila

February 25, 2009 @ 3:16 pm

You hit it right there, beb. Being pregnant is not just a matter of doing it and POP! there comes the baby. It’s about planning, financial stability, deciding on who’s going to take care of the baby etc.

Looking at Aaliya, my mini cousins and mums-to-be around me, of course there is the desire to be a mother and have a child of my own. However, some factors are delaying that desire of mine.

Well, I’m just glad I have close friends like you as well as close relatives who are understanding about it. I seriously don’t need any nosyparkers who will continue to bug me on when my turn’s going to be. Hurrr.

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Comment by Declone

February 25, 2009 @ 7:58 pm

Lets hope for the best for both of ya hehe. Din Junior… Haha..

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